Frequently Asked Questions
WHAT IS A DISCUSSION CIRCLE LIKE?
Discussion circles are co-ed events for curious people to learn and talk about complex topics in the realm of love, sex, and relationships with an emphasis on the progressive "love is love" mindset, redefining the ethical structure of relationships and of cultural acceptance.
During quarantine we will meet on zoom!
Contact me via email, instagram, or facebook and I will send you the access link.
Once quarantine is over we will get together at my cozy private residence in the living room with tea, wine, and snacks. We begin with a lesson in the chosen topic and then go around and share thoughts and get questions answered.
WHAT IS A WORKSHOP LIKE?
Workshops are a way to learn more about yourself through interactions with others and a time to practice new skills in communication, love, and connection. We will start off with exercises that get the group to connect and then slowly move into exercises that increase in vulnerability and connection.
Each workshop will be focused on a certain theme, such as healing your inner child, dealing with rejection, or opening your heart. Sexuality and playing with sexual energy will be integrated in only some workshops depending on the workshop topic. In that case it would be once the group has gotten connected, feels safe with one another, and has an embodied a deep understanding of boundaries.
Being able to maintain eye contact and be open to physical touch within your limits is essential for you and the other students to get the most from the workshop.
There is never any nudity or sexual touch involved.
WHAT IS A COACHING SESSION LIKE?
We will deconstruct the disempowering belief systems that are holding you back from having a healthy, playful, and empowering relationship to sexuality. Then I will teach you new information and new empowering belief systems, as well as teach you valuable knowledge and skills. When the moment calls for it I may guide you through a guided meditation or embodiment practice to get you into your body and get the new insights nestled deep into your psyche. The lessons build on one another so you truly go on a journey with your knowledge and skills enhancing!
There is never any nudity or sexual touch.
WHAT IS A COUPLES TANTRA SESSION LIKE?
I provide a relaxing, warm, sensuous environment and attitude that will have you feeling peaceful and romanced by all of your senses.
We will start off with compassionate sharing and any needed lessons or support around issues.
Then, when the time is right to enhance connection I will guide you through practices that will open your hearts up to one another and spark passion, building desire to put effort toward and learn to trust each other again.
HOW SEXUAL WILL SESSIONS GET?
There will be no nudity or sexual touch during our sessions.
It's the at home practices you do in your private time where you will be getting in touch with your body in a luscious, sexy way!
This includes couples sessions. We work with sensual energy and then it is in your private time that you would take the practices to their fullest sexual potential.
DO I NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP
TO RECEIVE COACHING?
Absolutely not! Working on yourself while single is a fantastic way to ensure you have the necessary skills to make your upcoming relationship work!
WILL I FINALLY BE CURED OF WHAT'S BEEN BOTHERING ME ONCE AND FOR ALL?
As life goes on we discover there is always more and more to be learned about ourselves and to heal. We will always be healing from something, though in some phases of our lives our shadows don't bother us as much. Coaching sessions will absolutely help you in how you interact with your demons so you are the empowered one with more control in your life. We will absolutely work deeply to change how you feel about what's been effecting you and set you up with practices for if they ever come on strong again. You will be equipped with many new skills on how to deal with future issues, and if you ever still feel the need to consult me,
I will be available ; )
HOW CAN I TRUST YOU TO TAKE ME THROUGH
I've graduated as a trained as a "SLRC: Sex, Love, & Relationship Coaching" through Layla Martin's Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexualiy, a 600 Hour program that consists of doing the very practices I will be recommending to you, 20 coaching sessions with fellow students and 25 coaching sessions with volunteer clients.
I completed a 200 hour month long program at Samma Karuna School of Awakening & Healing in Koh Phangan, Thailand proving my proficiency in Tantra History & Philosophy, Tao-Tantra Arts, Sacred Practices, Understanding of the Subtle Energy Body, Meditation Practice, Self-Development, Ethics, Communication, and Teaching Skills.
I received certification as a master of Urban Tantra techniques and professional awareness.
I have also done required reading on human sexuality, sexual anatomy, body trauma, the nature of infidelity, relationship styles, coaching, etc. As a student of sacred sexuality I have done work at multiple workshops and retreats held by Dawn Cartwright.
When it comes to me as a specific person:
I have mastered deep listening skills and a deep well of empathy and compassion. I'm honed into my intuition and healing energies, and have experienced my own darkness and trauma, so I can relate and help guide you out of it. My life has made me an excellent space holder. With me you will feel safe enough to express and go deep without judgement. You are allowed to be emotional, real, and raw with me. I will always make you feel at ease.
I'M INTERESTED! WHAT NOW?
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